It Doesn't have to be So Hard

It Doesn’t have to be So Hard completely revolutionises how we think and approach intimacy and  intimate relationships.

How does romance sour into incompatibility?
Are men really frightened by intimacy?
Why don’t women understand that sex is intimacy?
Can passion and intimacy  be kept alive with the same person, over time?
If you’re after a soul mate, are you pricing yourself out of the market?
Is nagging the death of love?

We can’t get enough of doomed lovers torn apart by betrayal, taboo and violence – as long as they stay on the screen or the page. In our own beds we want the happy ending. After Fifty Shades of Grey, you have read the fiction. Now read a book that talks about the reality.

It Doesn’t have to be So Hard completely revolutionises how we think and approach intimacy and  intimate relationships. Through interlocking stories that are moving, funny and all too familiar, Joanne Fedler and Graeme Friedman combine their years of personal and professional experience to tackle the tough  questions  and myths around intimacy. Drawing from both psychology and spirituality, this book offers a new perspective on what intimacy is and how to keep it going.

It Doesn’t have to be So Hard
will change the way you see yourself, and how you think about long-term love. Finding and keeping intimacy is a massive challenge. But it’s not impossible, once you know the secrets. One of the key messages of this book is that love has a big future if we are willing to do the work it takes.

About the Authors
Joanne Fedler
is the author of the international bestseller, Secret Mothers’ Business, and several other titles. She teaches creative writing and is a former law lecturer and women’s rights activist.

Graeme Friedman is the author of two non-fiction books, various  short stories, and a novel, The Fossil Artist (shortlisted for a 2011 Commonwealth Writers’ Prize). He has practised as a clinical psychologist for over 25 years.

Both Graeme and Joanne are happily married (to other people).

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Parameters of Book: Book
Sub-title: The secrets to finding and keeping intimacy
Author: Joanne Fedler and Graeme Friedman
ISBN: 9781431407057
d-PDF ISBN: 9781431407064


mobi file ISBN: 9781431407088
Size (mm): 235x155mm
Pages: 280pp
format: Paperback
Colour: Black & White
Rights: South Africa
Language: English
Publication Date: 2012-11-16
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